@zigg A dear friend wrote a blog post about gender being not just a matter of "direction" towards maleness or femaleness but also a matter of intensity. https://assumebenevolence.wordpress.com/2016/05/20/paint-chart/
It was the first time I realized I just felt no intensity of gender at all, I couldn't tell if mine was any hue in this metaphor because it was just too pale a shade! So I think this can be a good and useful way for people to think about gender.
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