since I'm feeling extra good today, here's a reminder for all of those who need to hear it:
You can be bi/pan/something else I don't know, even if you have dated only people of one gender. Or even if you have never dated anyone. Or if you have dated exactly one person and been married to them last 70 years.
it is a beautiful day in tartarus and you are a horrible goose. https://archiveofourown.org/works/28067901
gender binary, "passing"
A game I sometimes play in my head when I see pictures of people that I assume are cis, is to suppose they are trans and try to decide whether they pass or not.
At face value (ha) I think this kind of evaluation is kinda gross. But I'm trying to undermine my own assumptions about what gender looks like; what is a masculine face and what is feminine. I think it helps me break down the gender binary in my head, but it also seems like playing with fire sometimes.
It blew my mind when I learned that toasted bread can grate garlic directly into itself. So good. Highly recommend.
This message brought to you by finding out Amazon's doing a Blade Runner 2099 series, the irony of which makes me want to do something that would need a CW
“i'm convinced that the reason some people hate breastfeeding in public is not because it's somehow indecent, but because it's so profoundly *not* sexy, and some people can't bear to admit that a woman's body can be so asexual.”
FYI, in the US at least you don't need to be above a certain age or have special risk factors or anything, if it's been 2 months since your last booster then get your ass to the pharmacy
Turns out I'm mostly fine! just tired as hell, but that's from sleeping badly for weeks. Which probably means I got Omicron back in June.
a goddamn mess
I like the beep-boop
capitalism is cancer
maybe you like my toot?
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