plaid flannel fashionista @stelepami@mspsocial.net

I try to CW my talk about politics, my posts about recovery from my eating disorder, and anything else heavy about mental illness, weight or body shape, or exercise. I appreciate it when other folks do the same. If you need a CW from me, please ask!

I try to do media descriptions and usually only boost posts without them if there's a reply post with a description; I'll write one if I have spoons.

My dog is named Izzy and I love her so very much. She's a black Great Dane.

#intro I'm Stel when I'm online. I use she/her pronouns for myself but it's cool if you use they/them for me.

St Paulite who has lived in and loved Minneapolis but is back on this side of the river.

I want to do all of the things but rarely have the energy to do any of them.

Note: I am kind of bitter about being unable to make my software dev career work so if you post a lot of techspeak, I may mute you for a bit. Nothing personal, I just don't want to see reminders of that all the time.

I don't usually approve follow requests from accounts that haven't interacted with me. Take a little time to read some of my posts and maybe drop me a note. I never approve requests from accounts without bios and/or intro posts.

I don't always follow back right away. The likelihood that I'll request to follow someone goes up over time as I get a better sense of who you are.

My little sister has a coworker coming into town for a conference so my sister asked me for things for them to do around town and

I don't know
I don't go anywhere
and I never did

even before lockdown

(my sister's other friend who lives here came up with a great list so it's fine, the visitor will have plenty to do)

The dog let me sleep in until almost 10 without even getting my mom to feed her and this is very confusing. I might need to have a nap to recover from this nearly-unprecedented event.

I read an entire book this afternoon.
It wasn't a happy or fun book (non-cozy mysteries rarely are). It was a good read, though. And good to just read and be in the book.
Girl Gone Missing by Marcie R. Rendon.