I get the impression some folks think that butts are there to like... personally attack them, as if I know what hellsite is and have control over how they display our content.
The woof.group content-warning norms are already a carefully-chosen compromise in deference to a fediverse which is--let's be honest--conservative beyond the wildest dreams of Anita Bryant. Of course local norms and personal expectations vary, and that's okay! What I don't know is how to handle those subculture boundaries
@aphyr they might choose to silence your instance, which might be the easiest option
another option would be for you to do something like toomanycooks.social did and auto-cw your stuff when it federates out
probably either that instance or that user should just silence y'all since you have different norms. and that's ok! I suggest reaching out to their admin for a chat
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