@lawremipsum My childhood friend Jacinta (whose parents are Chinese immigrants) and I have been comparing notes about who from our school days has issued apologies to us... and why it's often more insulting than anything.

It's particularly weird for me because, well, I don't have many distinct memories before age 20. So when people bring this shit up, I'm essentially experiencing them for the first time.

YAY.

@yeahno @lawremipsum "ah geez my friend's getting married that weekend actually, instead of buying me a drink make a donation in my name to [charity], take it easy"

@yeahno yup, this time you're serving as the vessel for their decades of guilt. Fun treat to get used twice!