As anyone on my instance will tell you, I am extremely active when it comes to protecting the beautiful and dangerous people that have so blessed me with the gift of their participation here at Social. I don't fuck around when it comes to that.
So believe when I tell you making spaces safer is VERY possible if one actually puts the effort in to do so.
And the reason I am so critical of places that talk is that I know they just don't. Not b/c it's hard.
They just don't want to.